October 15, 2024
Volunteer Stories
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Volunteering with Four Pillars

Since its inception in 2016, Four Pillars has been there to support and empower the LGBT+ population in Grampian. Founded by individuals passionate about bridging the service gaps for the LGBT+ community, Four Pillars aims to combat isolation and foster a sense of belonging through comprehensive support addressing mental, physical, emotional, and sexual health.

Since its inception in 2016, Four Pillars has been there to support and empower the LGBT+ population in Grampian. Founded by individuals passionate about bridging the service gaps for the LGBT+ community, FourPillars aims to combat isolation and foster a sense of belonging through comprehensive support addressing mental, physical, emotional, and sexual health.

The organisation’s mission is to empower individuals with information and peer support, enabling informed health choices and fostering a connected, supportive community. The words below highlight the impactful stories of three dedicated volunteers whose contributions exemplify the profound difference Four Pillars makes. Through their stories, we see the real, tangible impact of Four Pillars on individual lives and the broader community.

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Amber - Sense of Belonging

I've been volunteering at Four Pillars for about a year and a half now, having started volunteering in general back in 2017. Initially, I was introduced to Four Pillars by my employability support worker, and from the moment I walked in, I felt an overwhelming sense of comfort and community.Meeting Linda, our volunteer coordinator, and starting hub shifts were pivotal moments for me. Volunteering here has been a way to reconnect with the community and work towards improving my mental health. The flexibility and support we get as volunteers are incredible. If you're struggling, you can step back, but the environment also encourages you to contribute as much as you can.I've made numerous friends, both volunteers and service users, and I cherish the connections I've built. One of my favourite aspects of volunteering is getting to know people and helping them in any way I can, which has always been a passion of mine.

In the past six months, I've expanded my role to include working with the teen group every other Friday. Despite initial nerves,I've grown to love working with these teens, offering them a safe space to be themselves. Hosting Dungeons & Dragons as a Game Master has been particularly rewarding, attracting more teens to the group and enriching their experience. Living in Peterhead, the isolation I felt before discovering FourPillars in Aberdeen was profound. This place is a lifeline, providing a safe, welcoming space for the queer community to connect. The transformation I've seen in myself and others, like a quiet service user who became a vibrant volunteer, highlights the positive impact of volunteering. Joining Four Pillars might be the change someone needs, offering a sense of belonging and a way to give back. It’s more than just a boost to your CV; it’s a way to find a family and support within your community.

Tawny - Committed to Giving Back

For about three years now, I’ve been coming along to Four Pillars and it really has been my sanctuary. When I lost my job due to my multiple sclerosis during the lockdowns, this place became a lifeline. Before finding Four Pillars, I used to travel down south to find places where I felt welcomed. But now, Aberdeen has become my refuge.

Even with the challenges I face, I'm committed to giving back. Volunteering one day a week and supporting events like Pride allows me to contribute, even in small ways. I like to give something back, even if it's just a little. Drawing from my own experiences, I understand the struggles many face. From Section 28 to the fear of physical abuse, I get it. For me, FourPillars isn't just a place—it's a lifeline for those who feel isolated and a beacon of hope for those in need of guidance and understanding.

Without places like this, people don't know where to turn. Here, they can find advice, support, and a safe space to be themselves, regardless of their sexual orientation or gender identity.

Layla - A Supportive Community

Before becoming a Support and Development Worker at FourPillars, I was a volunteer here. Volunteering helped me regain confidence and develop skills after being out of work for six and a half years due to mental health challenges. I had originally been a service user at Four Pillars, and asI started to build up confidence, I realised I wanted to get back to work and give a little bit back. So, I began volunteering to be more supportive and helpful rather than just sitting about in the hub all day. It was about being there for others and also getting back into the habit of working after such along break."

As a volunteer, I supported people in the hub and joined outreach projects, offering a listening ear and a helping hand wherever needed. Whether it was cleaning or assisting with events like Pride, I found fulfilment in contributing to the community. Volunteering was not only about giving back but also about reestablishing a routine and preparing myself for employment again. When a job opportunity opened up at Four Pillars, I took the leap, and it's been an incredibly positive journey ever since. I'm now grateful to support other volunteers who, like me, are on a path to self-development and empowerment.

When I first came out, there wasn't anything like FourPillars. It was a confusing and isolating experience, which took a toll on my mental health. Now, being part of this organisation allows me to ensure that others have the support I wished I had. Seeing people's growth and transformation here is one of the most rewarding aspects of my job. While volunteering might seem daunting at first, Four Pillars is a welcoming place for everyone, and I encourage others to join us in making a difference. It's not just about volunteering; it's about becoming part of a supportive community where everyone's welcome and valued.

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Published on:
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Published on:
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Children & Families
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age 18 and over
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Salvation Army Trading Company
Published on:
October 31, 2024
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Retail & Fundraising
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age 18 and over
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